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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, I agree that I need counseling. Maybe I don't need to leave him. I need to stop expecting something different from him. He's a good dad, but he has an addiction, and it's hurting me because I never thought I'd be married to a guy like this -- that I'm constantly covering up for. I need help because I'm turning into a person who I hate. It hurts so bad.[/quote] I’m sorry, OP. You’re not alone. I’m also in a bad space with my DH right now. At the moment, you need some physical separation to allow yourself to think and make decisions that won’t impact you or your DD in a negative way. [/quote] This is helpful. My automatic reaction is to want to be close to him but that's it is the cycle. I agree. We need space. He will get a hotel for a couple days if I ask. We'll have to deal with it again on Friday/weekend though. It'd be nice if I can have some advice with dealing with it on the weekend.[/quote] Just take it one day at a time. Start formulating your plan to leave. Thankfully you have an income that will allow you to do so.[/quote]
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