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[quote=Anonymous]1. Get some photographs that are completely unlike anything on your social media. Have photos that give you plausible deniability regarding anonymity, yet show your general attractiveness. Guys want to see attractive face and body....it's what's important to 99.5% of men. Being physically attracted to a woman is our minimum baseline. You need to use new photos that cannot be reverse image searched. 2. Use a fake name until you've been out on at least one date. State in your profile that "Susan isn't my real name, but I'll share more about me in person once we've established a degree of trust." It's very common for people to not use their professional name in the world of online dating. 3. Use Google Voice for swapping phone numbers. Do not give out your personal Facebook, Instagram, phone number, personal email, LinkedIn or instant messenger handle, until you're legitimately "dating" exclusively. Handle all communications through methods that do not directly tie back to you, that are not indexed on Google. 4. Do not tell people about the recent apartment or condo you bought. Don't even mention the specific neighborhood (for example, if you live in Adams Morgan just tell them you live in "NW" or "the Dupont area"). With Redfin/Zillow and public records, I can pretty easily pinpoint which property you bought if I know the purchase time frame and within a few blocks of purchase location. Once you find the sale record on Redfin, you can easily cross reference with the online Recorder of Deeds to figure out your name, purchase price, how much you financed, etc.[/quote]
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