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[quote=Anonymous]agree, I don't want my info all over. I did e-harmony for 3 mos. Found men lied (yeah I know women do too), went on about 10 dates. Found even if they looked like their pic, they had other qualities which were why, I felt they were on-line, like cheap (don't want to buy me a cup of coffee, really), pessimistic/depressed/bitter over ex, can't make a decision or FOMO types (you're great, like's go for dinner next Sat, then nothing. Apparently he didn't have the communication skills or manners to send a text, "hey great meeting you, but I met someone else & going to give it a shot). Yeah I know he didn't know me, but it just speaks volumes about his ability to communicate and get along).

I heard from almost every one, "wow you look just like your pics" . A few asked, "so what are you hiding". (Nothing, go freakin google me!) . Out of them, only 2 were genuine - they said who they were, looked like pics, honest in what they were looking for. Neither one worked out because their life philosophy (where to live in the future, etc.)

I'm sticking to professional conferences, asking friends and any one else I feel comfortable with if they know anyone and I am doing the things I like. I am considering a matchmaker or Just Lunch, also.  I think a lot of people are hiding a lot when you meet them on the internet.

I don't need to meet many men, actually just one, so I don't want to waste any more time meeting people on-line that I would not talk to in person.[/quote]

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