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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Black SAHM here.  My darling girl, I must give it to you straight, no chaser.  The best way to get what you want is to get a good job and search for a man of conventional tastes who is ambitious.  For your own sake, I hope that you keep searching for your true career path.  No one ever tells you that, unless you are independently wealthy, a DH is another boss.  You love your kids, you chafe, you fight, you concede, you continue.

Life can be so much more.  [/quote]

Thanks for that advice, I hadn't thought anout that. Very helpful. [/quote]

So much depends on your DH.  The fact is that everyone's idea of heaven is different.  Yet when you marry you both have to work together to create heaven for each other and your kids.  That process can never be flawless.  By SAH you put your partner in an unnaturally powerful position relative to you from the very start.  It's also very possible that motherhood will not be what you thought it would be, at least not in the beginning.  An unsatisfying job or career is far easier to change than an unsatisfying marriage to the father of your children.  If I were you I would seek employment in a field that I truly enjoyed -- lowest ladder rung, if necessary.  Then you will able to meet someone who accepts you for the person you actually are.  I had a decent job in a field in which I was competent but disliked.  It's better to pursue your true interests and attract someone that way.
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