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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I got caught and it was humiliating. I was in another city with my AP/business colleague and we were hugging while coming down the elevator when it stopped on a lower floor and a friend of my husband and mine walked on and saw us. He said hello and turned his back to me. Later he sent me a text that said "you tell him or I will." I told him and we divorced within a year. I was such a fool for giving up a good life because someone was really attracted to me. Thank God there were no children involved but three years later I'm still in this emotional and relationship limbo. You don't think you will be caught but sooner or later you will be so be prepared to pay the price.[/quote]

Wow. The odds of that happening are like 100000-to-1. Pretty crazy.[/quote]

Damn! I thought that when I first read this too, PP, but not really if you think about it. As a couple you probably have MANY different friends/acquaintances. Yes there are many different cities, but in terms of business travel there are really only a few big main ones - it's not weird that multiple people who know each other would  end up in the same one at a given time. Given the digital age we live on, honestly anyone who is having an affair is one step away from being found out[/quote]

I agree - just think back to how often you run into someone you know away from your "turf" especially wihh business travel It's not frequent but when it happens it feels crazy. I remember a few years ago I was staying in a small hotel in the south of France and ran into friends from home. I'm happy I was with my DH![/quote]

Yes! We ran into neighbors of ours at a random bar in Aruba, I couldn't believe it. I think it happens more than you'd think! [/quote]

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