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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I told him the truth - that I don't love him anymore (finally gave up trying to after years of disappointments and our marriage being 100% about his priorities and needs), and that I intend to ultimately leave the marriage. I told him that I would like to arrange my departure at my convenience, and he agreed to in essence be used by me, perhaps out of guilt. It feels wrong and liberating at the same time.

Why would he agree to essentially help increase my net worth over the next year or so knowing that I plan to leave when I feel back on my feet? Has anyone else experienced that before? [/quote]

Love these drama posts. Love that you get to read what people really think because there are no social consequences. I hope you get 100s of responses - it's what keeps me coming back.

As for your question: I'd do what he did. I'd be super agreeable. Why do you think being super agreeable would be to my advantage? [/quote]

OP here. Well, I actually did push what I really think into my real life. It got soul crushing to have to pretend that I kept loving a man who focused on himself all the while getting fat and becoming someone I am flat embarrassed to be married to. At the moment I feel so relieved. [/quote]

Perhaps he feels the same way about you.   I know I all I feel about my ex now is indifference while immediately after the split I was crushed. 
I doubt he will want waste his precious time with you anymore than you do with him.[/quote]

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