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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I feel you. It’s not fair for him to make you drive in a country where you’re not comfortable and may or may not have different rules, especially while you’re trying to navigate. He’s taking a weakness (which we ALL Have) and is using it as leverage against you or to control you, which is a really terrible thing to do.

I hate driving, and like you, I think I have dyspraxia or something as I feel like I don’t “see” what other drivers do. I walk or transit everywhere, and it works for us. Yes, DH has to come or get the groceries if there are big items, but they are OUR groceries, so he can help. 
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We travel to Europe with DH And his parents (all three are from there), and DH insists upon doing all the driving as it can be confusing and stressful, plus they use a lot of cameras, so you have to be confident and aware. I navigate as much as I can to help him.

I’m sorry that more people on here don’t get how truly petrifying it is to drive when you have a reason to not feel comfortable. It’s not a “I don’t like it” - it’s an actual realization that you are unsafe. Forcing someone under these conditions is cruel. [/quote]

+a million.[/quote]

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