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[quote=Anonymous]A few things stuck out in the story.  Agree with the other posters about not having a stranger pick you up at your place.  It’s a safety thing.  Also it’s easier to part ways after the first date in a more public place than it is in front of your house.  With the compatibility test, don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself because you think it would be rude.  Saying something direct like “ I’d rather go out and if we have in person compatibility first”.  If he uses this as some sort compatibility test as a screen to be willing to take you to dinner than it’s better to part ways early.  So don’t let someone pressure you into something because you think it’s rude to stand up for what you want (or don’t want).

Yes it’s a red flag that he would give this test on the first date.  I could see if you were dating and were several weeks and and were trying to learn more about the person.  I think if you are using it on a first date, you would be better signing up with Eharmony or a match maker etc to prescreen before the first date.[/quote]

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