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[quote=Anonymous]Agree with everyone that said it is a weird and annoying. She must be coming at this from a very different perspective - like her family is together a lot and loves to spend time with other people. Still she should have asked first. Assuming you can't or don't want to switch weeks, I would be really up front about this and proactive in planning. Also assuming your families get along fairly well, I would explain that you had originally intended this as family time but now that they are coming too, could we schedule specific things we do together and some apart- like mostly eat separately but one night all eat together. Are there excursions? (not sure what kind of resort this is) If so schedule one together then plan other things separately. The key is to set up expectations before you get there. i realize this isn't what you originally had in mind, but make the best of it by planning ahead and maybe it will turn out to be really fun.[/quote]
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