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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My problem with articles like these are that they cherry pick the people they talk to. There are 10-15 thousand donor egg cycles done in the US every year and probably many more donor sperm cycles. Just considering donor egg IVF, there are literally hundreds of thousands of donor egg-conceived children currently living in the US. Of course you can find a few who are upset, usually because they have other underlying issues with their parents. [b]The same is true of anecdotal articles about adoption. And, of course, there are plenty of kids who have issues with their genetically-related parents.

I have never seen any statistically significant, evidence-based studies that show that donor conceived children have a higher rate of dissatisfaction with the parents who raised them than do non-donor conceived children.[/b] [/quote]

+1.  As an adoptee, the issue of identity, genetics, are a huge issue but luckily my parents told me when I was 4 years old so being adopted wasn't this huge secret.  Had they waited until I was older that would have been devastating: to my identity, to trusting my parents and others, etc.  But since they told me when I was young it just one part of growing up.  As these two DE articles point out, some people were told when they were adults and that's just not right.  [/quote]

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