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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband used to do this with a credit card. He argued that she never abused it but it was a no for me.

I didn't like it so he stopped.

Things are so much more organized now that she knows to tell him what she needs so that it can be apart of the BUDGET. For me, it was more so about financial wellness rather than her having access to his money. There wasn't any which was part of the problem.

We had the conversation while we were still dating because I didn't want ANY one other than my husband and myself having access to our money for any reason. Exes don't get a pass. You have been dating for 3 years and you live together you are allowed to voice your opinion. I hate when people at like you can't say anything to rock the boat with an ex. HOGWASH.

Honestly, a compromise it would be to always keep a certain amount of that money in a checking account for the child but I wouldn't put any joint money in that account or pay any bill out of it. It would be just for the kids.[/quote]

You were married and presumably sharing finances. OP is doing neither. [/quote]

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