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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex-SIL did the weekly “audit” thing on my brother for eight years after he cheated. The anxiety and hyper-awareness meant she could never enjoy anything, and frankly, it wasn’t flattering to her: she looked really abusive, and we felt bad for him. She finally realized that she was never going to get over his cheating, and kicked him out, but I think they both wish they had just split when the cheating occurred.[/quote] There was only one person to blame. The person who chose to cheat, not the victim. I would have continued to check up on him but where he wouldn't know. Once someone cheats it's pretty much over, BUT many women have to stay because of finances and the kids. It's not like you really like the cheater after that. [/quote] “Have” to stay because of finances and kids? No. The cheated upon can get a job and split custody. If you can’t forgive, then leave. Likewise, if you can’t keep your private parts in your pants, leave. Don’t blame your kids for your dysfunctional marriage.[/quote]
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