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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Brand new to online dating. I'd been with my ex for 9 years and never tried it before. Met a guy who seemed sweet and cute. Chatted about a week and agreed to meet at Brabo in Old Town for dinner.

In he walks... at 5'6".  His profile listed at 5'10" and we never talked about it but ... yeesh. I'm just not interested. Do I fade, call him out, or pity myself for being shallow? [/quote]

Did we go out with the same guy? The lying made me angry. I finally got over pitying myself for being shallow and told him things were moving forward with someone else.

The truth is it wasn't his height that bothered me, it was the insecurity and lying. My online profile is the real me. I list my real late 30s age and include full body photos of my very average, not particularly fit body. I figure if someone isn't interested in the real me, it's not worth spending 2 hours on a date with them. I wish more people would online date this way. The wasted time and unmet expectations can be really emotionally exhausting.[/quote]

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