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[quote=Anonymous]Can you both have separate territory?

For example, separate office are o4 where you store your stuffs. Clearly divided  refrigerator shelves.

My husband is a hoarder. He like to horde his stuffs but throw my stuffs  away to make room for his. ( I know he is a hoarder because in his parent’ s 4 bedroom house,  his stuffs are in 3 bedrooms and a whole storage room, even he already moved out of the house for more than 10 year. — well he is the only child, so his parents are somewhat encouraging his behaviors)

I afraid our house would turn into storage for his hoarded stuff. He was using basement and one bedroom and a d8ning room fo4 his office alone when we start living together in a home I bought prior to marriage. Meanwhile, all I had was a space in our bedroom for office.

In our current, I made it cleathat each person have their own space and their stuffs should not exceed their territory. If anything gets overflow, that is a signals to start purging or donating staffs.  This way , no one will throw another person stuffs away as long as things are in their own place.

Hope this helps.[/quote]

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