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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] This is what makes him comfortable and there's some sort of payoff to being this way. [b]Plus, I think my mom likes this version of him.[/b] She's become very religious and is constantly defending Catholicism. They can spend their golden years dreaming up the Crusades. Shrug. I can't stop it.

OP, it has helped me to look at it this way. Getting older isn't easy and some people just choose to approach it with anger, resentment and regrets. They feel powerless and dislike the world. Some people age better and consciously decide to live with happiness and grace. It sounds like you mom has just turned sour. I'd limit contact.  [/quote]

Not to go off on a political tangent, but sadly I think this is the core of Trump-women. They seem to like their DHs this way. And i is at the core of my more recent cutting off of contact with my mother. I love her, but will not allow her to spout her sexist, racist bile especially around my DD. She has little or no interest in her anyway and pays fawning lipservice to her grandsons only.[/quote]

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