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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is your ex the father of James?  Did you honestly expect him to ignore a child he knew?

Do you think he knew you'd be at the cafe or it was coincidence? [/quote]

No he's not the kid's father.

James wasn't saying anything to him.

It was a coincidence.[/quote]

Then A: whats the problem  B: Do you normally need others opinions on meaningless happenings. [/quote]

Why did he say anything? That's my problem. It was already so overwhelming and anxiety-inducing to see him. It just made it worse for me.

It was a week ago today that I communicated very clearly that he not contact me by any means nor acknowledge me in public. I suppose I consider my kid an extension of myself in this instance (he wouldn't know him if it weren't for me). [/quote]

I think he should have just said nothing, but since it sounds like the ex isn't scary or badly behaved, it was just that you feel really hurt by the breakup, I think you need to just let it go.  Any communication you have with him about this just leads to what you say you don't want-more interaction with him.[/quote]

I'm not communicating with him at all, just wanted the DCUM consensus, which I guess is that he's cool and I'm not. Probably accurate. [/quote]

Way to prove you're a drama queen, OP![/quote]

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