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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ha, marriage without sex. That’s my marriage. Had a kid four years ago. Haven’t had sex in five year. Yes, that’s five years.

Wife went from 120lb to 190lb during pregnancy. Doc told her to watch her weight. She didn’t. Three years later she’s 155lb. Today she’s 145lb. Won’t go to gym or eat healthy. We joined a gym with a day care. Paid $5000 over two years. She went maybe 15 times. Waste of money. I stopped paying and cancelled.

Yeah, no sex. A good amount of arguing talking about how different we are. I bike 50-60 miles a week. Watch what I eat. We’re so different with nothing in common anymore. When we became parents I changed. Became more mature, responsible, focused on future financials, etc. She stayed the same.

If I was a betting man we’ll be separated within two years from now. I’m halfway through my life, I want to be in a loving relationship. This isn’t one.

I tell her all the time we are roommates raising a kid together. And we argue about how to raise our kid. Life...[/quote]

There’s a lot of stuff going on there.  It’s probably not as simple as you think.  Your wife may have deep issues with you.  The weight could even be a security blanket.  Maybe she’s very unhappy.  Who knows.  But it’s most likely not what you think and what you’ve been doing isn’t working [/quote]

That is typical woman nonsense. "Deep issues", equals "I want to blame you for my issues" and do nothing about it myself. Funny how women claim to be such great communicator yet commonly have problems speaking up on important issues.  [/quote]

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