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Reply to "I'm struggling so much with ending my marriage."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is the OP. So most of you think I should just stick it out? And live with this depressed person for the rest of my life? Obviously we can't start a family now. [/quote] Then get your ducks in a row and prepare to leave. But if you love him, then be loving about it. Tell him that he either does x, y, z or else you are filing for divorce. Talk to his parents or siblings because they should be prepared to step in. Don't leave him financially in ruins of without stable housing, otherwise he might suffer...or commit suicide. You don't want that. (My friend's husband killed himself shortly after she left him. While it wasn't her fault, she lives with the guilt even years later.) Here's the thing: even if he goes to therapy and stays on meds, you don't want to have babies with this guy. Setting aside his own issues, you don't want kids with mental health issues. [/quote]
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