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[quote=Anonymous]Yes I am for real ,Sorry for being dramatic, yes the house is in the trust name , I don't have any issue with them selling it to use the money for buying her a nicer home, we will find another home. We were not living off the trust we have been paying rent to stay here since she ran away,  I do think its the boyfriends family wanting her to sell the place out from under us to try and hurt us, to push us away and so they can try to benefit from her trust as if she leaves the boyfriend he will have no where to go except back to his moms house, which with his issues( ADHD, anxiety and anger issues) his family does not want him moving back and also as soon as they found out about the trust thats when they talked her into running away and 2 weeks later they took her to see her trustee to try and get her to get some money for them, then when that did not work they were not happy and started treating her bad,
Then she wanted to come back home but the boyfriend would not allow it and she told me he threw a fit like a little boy when she insisted on coming to see us, now she has to ask him permission to do anything and wont come over anymore, she always seems happy to see us but he makes it obvious he does not want us around, I have tried to get her to go to counseling with me ,when she was pregnant we attended counseling but the boyfriend was always there so none of the issues were ever brought up because he go's into a rage quite easily.

I do think her traumatic brain injury causes decision making issues where she tends to just go along with what people are telling her to rather then think things through on her own and she has a people pleaser personality which runs in the family, They talked about getting married back when she first ran away but not anymore and she told me she does not want anymore babies, but then he tells me he is hoping the next one is a boy completely ignoring what my daughter said. I keep posting images and articles about abuse awareness on facebook but I don't know if she reads them, I am just hoping that she wakes up soon and leaves him but I also know she thinks she is doing the right thing by staying and helping him with his issues and keeping the family together.[/quote]

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