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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^^^ LOL if you are serious. LMAO[/quote]

op here. i am really honest and serious.

Mine got around 80% for both tests. She reads well, work hard, got compliments from all her teachers. But her scores are just average. So I always ask myself how can any other kid get that super score at 99%. I always thought it might be unreal until last night as I talk to one of my colleagues on the way home from work. She told me about her son in AAP 3rd grade and his two test scores are both 99%. Well now I really believe that those kids are real. I am very impressed.

Those kids must be smart but they also need to really focus on the test. Mine easily get distracted. I can not understand why others can not be impressed like me. :)[/quote]

Don't undersell 80% and hard work...it can really really pay off in high school, college and work. 99% can be successful and amazing, but for most people who have a 99% child (who didn't do any prepping etc), it can come with other challenges as well. And while I am sure (since this is northern Virginia after all) there are some children who are 99% with no prep, amazing athletes on travel teams not on pay to play teams, very popular with their peers and an overall joy to be around, there are plenty who struggle. One of my DC is a 99% child with no prep. He is also very good at a lot of other things and what we have had to work with him on is his work ethic. He tends to give up if something doesn't come naturally to him because he is so used to most things being easy from the get go and while that worked out while he was younger, as he got older and other children started really putting in the time and dedication it caught up with him. There are also certain academic subjects that you HAVE to put in the time and learn good study habits if you want to study them in college, no matter what your IQ. You can't pull off a research project in one night.

It can be a very hard lesson, and if they don't learn it when they are younger, they get to high school or college and freak out (I have seen this with many a TJ child). They hit their first big failure and seem amazed. You then look at the 80% kid (of which I also have), who has spent their life working hard for the things they want, and they not stunned in the face of failure. They shrug their shoulders and figure out how to move on. [/quote]

Yes, this.  I have a kid who just got 99th percentile on the CogAT but he is lazy as all get out.  For the person who said non-AAP kids will start outperforming a lot of these kids in high school, I have no doubt that you are correct in the case of my child.  I don't care.  I just want my kid to be happy and well adjusted and I think AAP is the right place for him.  [/quote]

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