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[quote=Anonymous]Add me to the list.  It's so hard, so so hard.  My SIL who was told they'd have to do IVF b/c there's no way they would get pregnant again got pregnant and told me four days after I found out I had a CP.  Over xmas I hear my cousin's wife is also expecting so my SIL is talking about how they can be pregnancy buddies again, and then mentions how our other cousin will find out the sex at 2pm (SIL keeps checking her phone for announcements).  SIL also knows we've been doing IVF for almost two years and it was just so painful to sit there.  I should have said something at the time but I was afraid of coming off as shrill or a total bitch or just sounding ridiculous.  We have a baby shower coming up for another friend at the end of the month and I am thinking about skipping it.

All this to say that what you are feeling is so completely normal.  As others have said, be kind to yourself.  It's a shitty club to be in and you don't know what it's like until you're in it.  I'm so sorry.  Hugs.[/quote]

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