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Agree with the bolded.  [b]I'm white, married to a black man.  I dated men of all races when I was single, and met two different black men who proudly announced they only dated white women because black women are all [stupid stereotypes here], ON OUR FIRST DATE.  I think they meant it to be a compliment to me (or some kind of coded reassurance? unclear) but both were pretty surprised when I walked out on the date.  No one should be constrained in who they can date based on race, but if you have a blanket ban on a certain race (I don't care which one, it doesn't have to be a self-hatred issue) then I assume you're not someone my values line up with very well.[/b]

As for the South Asian/white thing -- I felt bad for Kumail Nanjiani because his movie was autobiographical and he got so much flack for reinforcing the stereotype that was started with Mindy & Master of None.  But I do understand why people are upset with the trend.[/quote]
I am a black woman married to white man and I am so with you! When I was single, I had white men announce they do not date white women and even go on diatribes about how repulsive white women are. It always alarmed me and gave me gooseflesh. I do not want to deal with anyone who is hostile to entire groups of people. [/quote]

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