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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As to his friends, I DON'T think it's okay for his friends to be gambling and using drugs and I agree that they tacitly encourage each other to lie, but I can't keep him from them, it's a losing battle.

As to whether he went to a SC last week, I haven't asked him about it yet.  The circumstantial evidence is there, though; he paid for dinner with a credit card, then withdrew a large sum of $$ down the street from their "regular" strip club.  If they had just gone to a bar or club, he would've  used his card as a couple of the friends he was with are potential clients and the expense would be tax deductible.  Whether it was technically a SC or something else doesn't even really matter, the huge cash withdrawal is damning.[/quote]

Don't know how to break this to you but he's buying sex. Stupid pays for titties and dances, he is paying for sex. And most likely butt sex. Men want freak and pay for that freak. He may give you a disease.

I know you don't want to believe it but he is. He's also doing what you say the others are doing. A man that truly loves and respects his wife does not go looking elsewhere. [/quote]

I can't be 100% sure, but I doubt it.  It just doesn't fit with the circumstances I know of.  And whenever I've caught him in a lie, there's never ever been a whiff of adultery involved.  [/quote]

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