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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He sounds incredibly immature. Did you marry young? Like, teens/early twenties?[/quote]

Nope.  We married in our mid-30s.  He is immature, our old therapist said so as well.  He is socially awkward and was 'uncool' until he became successful professionally in his early 30s, he is in his early 40s now.  I kind of feel that he is basically living the youth he never had as a cool person.[/quote]

Similar situation w/my dh except the professional success was more early 40s and now he's in his late 40s and basically a nerdy teenager who thinks he's cool.  He has always lied about stupid things that didn't matter.  I had low self-esteem and let it go.  Then he [pursued someone?  had an EA? had an affair?] - who knows and whatever it was it seems it did not end well and now I'm just done.  I'm done with him and I'm done with any lie of any sort.  If you don't have kids let him go.  You can do so much better. [/quote]

I’m also in a similar boat and heading down this path with my DH. As my friend a divorce lawyer told me, this can either go one of two ways. Time will tell. Give it another week, give him a chance to tell you,  get busy, then mention it when it’s a good time and ask him about it. [/quote]

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