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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] 1) how did he react when the therapist mentioned this? [b]It backfired. He automatically blamed me for the Mother-Child dynamic although it's shared responsibility.[/b] 2) how did the therapist tell you to deal with it? [b]Aside from giving us tools to communicate better, she told me in an individual session that DH is immature and it's up to me to decide whether to live with it or not.[/b] My gut says that there’s nothing you can do unless he understands that this dynamic is going on and wants to change it. There is something he is getting (or trying to heal) from putting you in the MOMMY role. You can’t change that until he decides he wants a partner not a parent. [/quote][/quote] OP, marriage is work. But this is way beyond the call of duty. You don’t have children, correct? Move on. This is not worth it. Who wants to be married to a man-child?[/quote]
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