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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is not ok. You have explained to him that dishonesty bothers you, that you won’t get upset if he went to a strip club, you’ve been to therapy, and yet he lies anyway, and hangs out with other men who regularly lie to their wives. It sounds like he just does not have the baseline belief that he should be honest with you. Maybe he’s a compulsive liar or maybe he just lies when he thinks it will be better for him in the short term than telling the truth. Either way, you have no way of knowing if he’s lying about bigger things too, and no reason to think he is being honest and open with you more generally. I would not stay in a relationship with someone like this. [/quote] I think he hasn't lied about anything bigger... so far. How would I know? Basically, his history of secret-keeping and lies has made me more paranoid & vigilant and I doublecheck things he tells me. But that's not to say that his lies won't get bigger.[/quote]
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