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[quote=Anonymous]This is a really, really bad idea. If he has blocked you on every channel, he really really really is done with you. Even if he was all in, he might be horrified for you just to show up on his doorstep. I tried that once, thinking my FWB was going to be delighted by the surprise, and he was dismayed. People don't like that kind of surprises under the best of circumstances, and these are the worst of circumstances.

It is too late. You need to let him go. You might be regretting how you handled his alleged pneumonia (we really don't know, do we; maybe he just couldn't do long distance any more and didn't know a graceful way out), but if you freaked out on him and he blocked you and then you fly across the country to show up on his doorstep, that makes you basically a stalker. That ought to finish the demise if he had any doubt about it. Guaranteed.

So you might as well save your money and time and just accept the new reality.

Besides, surely you can find someone on your coast rather than torturing someone you only dated for four months before you went cross country.[/quote]

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