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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Then problem is not what she eats. I also have PCOS and had to develop an eating disorder in order to stay thin. You know all these foods create disproportionate problems (for this kind of disorder it's not calories in/calories out, it's highly dependent on the kinds of foods) and become obsessive about everything and it's not fun. You think about it all the time because the foods that are good for you are not as easily available, especially in a social setting. But she was probably very fat and hairy at some point and wants to actually be in a relationship and in America there really is nothing worse than being a fat woman. You mentioned that she now is fit and thin, and I'm betting if you met her as she was then, you wouldn't have given her the time of day. She knows that. I was not asked out for a decade until I became obsessive and got thin and "hot" even though I was always the same person inside.

Her problem, though, is that she comments and lectures on what YOU eat. Not cool. Why are you worried that she only drinks a glass of wine at a bar? But also maybe try to do activities that don't focus on food. It's not fun for her. [/quote]

Exactly, exactly this. PCOS sucks and I'm sure she knows the hard way what would happen to her physically if she let herself slide, so she's being super cigilant. Something tells me you ALSO wouldn't be too thrilled if she gained a bunch of weight / had facial hair issues, right? It really sucks, trust me...but with pcos your body does not work like a normal body

But it's annoying that she lectures about it. UNLESS she is doing that because you keep pushing her to indulge WITH you, or doing things like buying her candy and being annoyed that she won't eat it. If you're forcing the issue, then it's not surprising she's feeling defensive and feeling the need to stand up for her viewpoint. But if you're not commenting on HER eating, she shouldn't comment on yours. [/quote]

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