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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just took dw a cup of coffee while she was getting out of the shower and getting dressed.  She's got a ridiculous body and I decided to hang out and chat while she went about her routine.  I can't tell you what we talked about - I think maybe the Alabama election results.

Anyway, it's been 16 years and I haven't messed up. We have sex a few times a week if that matters.[/quote]

Here's the thing, if my DH did even one of the two things you describe- 1) brought me coffee in the morning, or 2) hung out to chat for no reason, he'd be getting sex twice a week too.  I agree that having infrequent sex in a marriage sucks and can lead to an affair.  That said, men shouldn't just blame their wives "lack of sex drive" before examining their own behavior towards her.  And before I get the question:  Have you gained 40 pounds since you were married?  I've put on about 5-7, so I'm fighting to squeeze my ass into the same size.  BUT, a guy I'd estimate to be in his early 30's complimented me at the gym this week.  [/quote]

Very, very good point.[/quote]

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