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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dump him, cut all contact and run as fast as you can from this seriously weak character.

You are in a serious car accident and his reaction is poor me, my needs are not being met.

Seriously DO NOT HAVE KIDS with this poor excuse for a human.

Imagine having cancer or a child with cancer. This man will only be worried about his own needs.

FFS,  get out.[/quote]

Thats what im thinking, im just heartbroken, i left everything to move and be with him and when im at my lowest he presented me with divorce papers. Now i have to look for a job to move back to my old state and im still not 100% recovered from the accident[/quote]

You can look at it as a heart break, I lost everything or you can think your guardian angel showed you who he really is before you had children so you can go back home and be happy.

It's a gift. Embrace your new life.[/quote]

My brain gets that, but i still feel so depressed and dumb for quitting my job and everything to follow him[/quote]

But OP -  you moved to be with your husband.  Despite what many try to promote, I think far fewer people are able to pull-off the long distance thing.   You MUST give yourself permission to give yourself a break.   Imagine one of your favorite people going through the EXACT same thing ... treat yourself as well as you would them.  And don't invent reasons you somehow deserve ANY of this ... whether you were already prone to beating yourself up or he initiated or further instilled it in you, it's your job to stop being unkind to yourself.

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