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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are asking 2 entirely different questions. But I think alot of men would agree with my answers.

Q1: how important are looks vs personality?
A1: like one PP said, I have a threshold of good looks that, below which, I'd never even consider a romantic relationship making personality irrelevant. But in absolute terms, my threshold for looks is not very high. I seriously think [b]almost any woman on the planet could be "good enough looking" so long as she is [/b]physically fit and[b] not overweight[/b].

Q2: does age destroy looks?
A2: Definitely NOT !! All of the women that I have "crushes" on are about my age or even older. All of them are physically fit, so I find fit women attractive regardless of age. The problem is, for a lot of people "older" means gaining weight and I find this completely unattractive. Unfortunately, my wife is one of these people who has gained alot of weight. So now, despite her great personality, my wife has fallen below my threshold and I'm not at all attracted to her. It has nothing to do with age, if she lost the 40 pounds then I would again believe she is gorgeous, like the day we met.[/quote]

And cared about trying to look feminine.[/quote]
What does that mean?  Painting your nails, wearing heels and a dress, and putting on makeup?[/quote]

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