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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I just want to give you a hug (and a shoulder to cry on if you need it). Not only does it sound like you do have a lot on your plate, I hear loud and clear you and physically and emotionally near a breaking point. I understand. I spent years sucking it up, rising to the occasion, making it work, because I felt like I had to (and because of society's expectations for women, but that's another conversation). And I broke. I'm not ashamed to admit it. It was ugly, painful, brutal. It had to happen so I could really reevaluate and make the changes I needed to make for [I]me[/I]. I'm not going to tell you what to do about visiting your day. I am going to say, don't let your life get to the point that mine was. Make those choices, changes, and reprioritize before you find yourself having a breakdown. Enlist your DH into making these changes, too.[/quote]
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