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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First, this should all have been discussed before getting married. Nothing more important then agreeing on kids. Second, I would also consider the problems with spacing out your 3 kids ages. In the long run you'll be much happier to have the third child closer in age to the second one.

I also have 3 kids and wouldn't have done it any differently.  [/quote]

You can “discuss” stuff like this before getting married, but those discussions are certainly not binding. If she’s not ready to have another baby right now, she’s not ready. If she thought she would be and has since changed her mind based on whatever, it would be absurd and cruel to insist that #3 happen now because “she agreed.”

I also don’t know what you mean by problems with spacing. Plenty of people have kids more than 3 years apart without problems. [/quote]

+1. I thought I wanted 3 kids, one right after the other. After actually having a kid, I know it'll be years before I'm physically and mentally ready for #2, and no way am I doing #3. DH isn't thrilled, but he's not the one who has to deal with pregnancy, childbirth, and the impact of another kid on his career. [/quote]

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