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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a virgin. We got married a month ago. I was expecting to have a romantic wedding night with either sex then or the morning of.

My husband partied too hard and was too drunk on our wedding night and we were bickering and fighting the next morning. [b]WTF? BICKERING ON YOUR WEDDING NIGHT/DAY/DAY AFTER? YOU HAVE YEARS AHEAD OF YOU TO BICKER. [/b]

The week after we were fighting/arguing. [b]THE WHOLE WEEK? NON STOP?[/b]

The next week I got my period. [b]7 DAY LONG PERIOD? YOU CAN HAVE SEX ON YOUR PERIOD, YOU KNOW[/b]

Then it was work/thanksgiving week... [b]WHEN I GIVE THANKS I CAN [u]ALSO[/u] STILL HAVE SEX THAT NIGHT. SAME WITH WORK. IN FACT, I WORKED YESTERDAY AND HAD SEX LAST NIGHT. WHAAAAAT?
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And now my husband is furious. [b]HE SOUNDS LIKE AN ASSSSSSSS.[/b]
He says our marriage is not normal [b]HE'S RIGHT[/b] and he desperately wants intimacy. [b]NO DUH.[/b]
I said I want to have sex too [b]ARE YOU SURE?[/b] but I thought it would be in a special moment and not simply during a weekday when we come home after work at 9.[b]AND YOU SOUND LIKE A TEENY-BOPPER. WEEKDAYS ARE SPECIAL IF YOU MAKE THEM SPECIAL
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We had another huge fight this morning. [b]YOU GUYS FIGHT TOO MUCH.[/b] I am exhausted...and scared for my marriage. [b]WHY ARE YOU EXHAUSTED? YOU AREN'T STAYING UP AT NIGHT HAVING SEX.[/b][/quote]

I disagree that the husband sounds like an ass. He waited for her not having sex until they got married, then she puts off sex for another month. [/quote]

Kind of agree with both of you.  On the one hand, he's been waiting a looong time, and her excuses are flimsy af.  But on the other hand, if you're marrying a terrified virgin maybe don't get hammered at your wedding and have a plan for the wedding night.  It can't possibly be a surprise to him that she was expecting something special/romantic for her first time, on their wedding night.

We didn't have sex on our wedding night because we were exhausted/drunk, but we had been having sex for years.  So the biggest thing about that day was celebrating our wedding, enjoying the party (booze, etc) and spending time with our guests.  If we had been waiting to have sex for the first time I would expect that to rank higher on the list of important things about the day than booze.[/quote]

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