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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a virgin. We got married a month ago. I was expecting to have a romantic wedding night with either sex then or the morning of.

My husband partied too hard and was too drunk on our wedding night and we were bickering and fighting the next morning.

The week after we were fighting/arguing.

The next week I got my period.

Then it was work/thanksgiving week...

And now my husband is furious. He says our marriage is not normal and he desperately wants intimacy.I said I want to have sex too but I thought it would be in a special moment and not simply during a weekday when we come home after work at 9.

We had another huge fight this morning. I am exhausted...and scared for my marriage.[/quote]

You and dh seem to be mostly upset bc no sex. You’ll learn...it can be a downward spiral of feelings when it doesn’t happen. What I fail to understand is...if there’s no going all the way, I don’t understand why (and maybe I am incorrect), some kissing/making out hasn’t led to a lot more. Just start kissing him; tell him you want to take charge so you feel comfortable, and then do what comes naturally. Take this as far as you want to go each night. I guarantee this will get you both on track. 
-dh and I were virgins until our wedding, but we also went away on a honeymoon for a week. Didn’t you go get away somewhere? It helps to not be at home where there is stuff happening (though that wouldnt have stopped us).[/quote]

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