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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m with the guy that doesn’t think it’s too serious. It really is like going to a strip club (with much worse looking girls). They can’t even see you. It’s purely a monetary transactions. Most women are ok with their men going to a strip club before the wedding, but suddenly cam girls are considered cheating. She actually cheated on him with another dude. She knew his name I assume. I would even assume he knew she was married. 
OP, stop going to cam sites because it’s a waste of money, but I definitely don’t equate it to cheating. Not even close. Cheating is usually about building an emotional connection with someone else. 
Get off your high horses. I’ve seen more “cheating” in office relationships in which people become confidantes [/quote]

Not every woman is ok with her man going to a strip club in any circumstance. Cam girl porn is not ok, either. I hate when women -of all people!- try to normalize that type of shit. [/quote]

I'm with you. Especially after she made it clear with him that he should stop doing that. I don't think the OP is a bad guy. ACtually, i was surprised that he forgave her for her indiscretions. But it sounds like a complicated relationship. It sounds like you do truly love her, but are still angry at her for cheating. Perhaps you justify the cam girl stuff with what she did. You compare and contrast and end up thinking that what you're doing is not nearly as bad. But I assume you now trust her and love her and believe she wants to be with you, so why continue hurting her.
I wish you luck, but I am not sure you guys should continue this relationship. I don't think you have kids either, she seems too willing to dump you. If you did have kids, cam girls may not be enough to end a marriage. [/quote]

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