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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I graduated HS in 1994 and must also have grown up in a bubble. I first had sex summer after my senior year and was never shamed for it, nor did i feel pressure to harrass girls at school. I had (and still have) a group of great friends that stretch back to middle school. No idea what you all are talking about.[/quote]

13:36 here, to clarify that I never felt shamed into doing anything.  It was simply that many, in my opinion, bad actors were getting all the girls.  There was no penalty and often a benefit to being aggressive and disrespectful [/quote]

Those bad actors weren't talking shit to the other dudes or taunting them for not notching up the women?[/quote]

Not specifically, about harassing girls.  Just in general about not being cool, not having certain clothes, not being able to do certain things.  Not getting girls was sort of a result of many if the former.

The point to me is that this behavior was reciprocal between males and females.  And it’s not that one was being harassed to act a certain way.  It was moreso that one could observe how certain behaviors achieved certain results.  Therefore, it’s easy to see how you could say well I’m going to start acting that way also because it works.[/quote]

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