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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the misogyny runs a little deeper than women seem to think. It's not just that the woman means little to the man & he's using her for his own pleasure. He's using her to score in his competition with other men. Social status depends not only on how many women he has sex with but also on the [b]perceived difficulty of having sex with her. [/b]

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This is true, but this can still be true even if the woman is not a virgin. Most men I know have an ideal of a lightly sexually experienced woman, 2-5 prior partners perhaps and no a non-slut reputation. But the classic freak in the sheets and lady in the streets can't really be achieved with a virgin, who has zero sexual experience. [/quote]

There's a huge double standard here, too. My millennial-aged, relatively "enlightened" BF has a problem with my number, which is only slightly higher than his, and includes women, as I'm bi. I don't get it. Here's a highly educated guy, sensitive, intellectual, generally thoughtful, and yet it's a real hang up for him. [/quote]

ICK. Yellow flag, PP. Esp if you are Bi ....I am too....my ex decided after a while that my sexual orientation was "too much" for him and eventually was threatened by it and my number. My current partner is male as well and when I tell him stuff all he LOOVES it. [/quote]

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