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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have been a victim of physical, verbal and emotional abuse.  I generally avoided having my then BF or partner interacting w/ my friends because he was volatile or would be critical after.

My friends and family should have recognized that as a red flag.

Just be the kind of friend that is open to hearing things without criticism.  If your froend is signalling that her partner is not available, follow her lead or she might distance herself further from you.  Victims of abuse generally know what is safe and unsafe for them.

If you continue to visit and share about your life and ask generally about hers, more will come out.  [/quote]

I have heard of this.  Don't be over friendly to other people's spouses - if that spouse is abusive, it ends in more abuse.  It that what you want?  It is not that he prefers you, it is that he is using it against her (not in your favor).  It is hard to explain unless you live with it, but outside forced definitely add to the abuse (often without realizing).  [/quote]

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