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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hate all these posters saying, "just do more work", "go to counseling".....FEELING loved and being in love are not things that you manufacture in a lab! Those feelings are developed through attention that is exchanged between two human beings with emotions. When a partner ignores you, or takes no interest in your emotional well being, its almost impossible to feel anything more than a surface level of "like". OP, I am so sorry. I was living in your situation for a very long time. I never felt like my husband really loved me. He said he did, but I never FELT it. There was a huge disconnect and it made me feel dead inside. I tried very hard to find outside interests and to fill the void with other appropriate friendships. It got to a point where I felt soulless and I needed to leave. We BOTH deserved to find more and without leaving I knew that chance could never happen for either of us. It has now been 2 years since I left and we are both much happier. All I can say is that I do understand and I hope you figure out what you need to do. I understand staying or leaving. These things are not black and white. Hugs![/quote]

NP.  Out of curiosity, have you met someone else/found love?

I'm just curious.  I think the reason a lot of people are telling OP to cultivate her own interests is because even if she leaves her husband, she may not find what she is looking for.

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