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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The problem in your marriage is summed up with you saying that  you don't press for information. Why not? You know he goes to bars, and doesn't seem coming home to you after work is a thing. That is not how marriage works. First off, what are you afraid of? Second, couple communicate to each other if they are staying late at work, chatting up, that is called common decency. You keeping quiet about it, makes him think this dynamic is perfectly fine, so why change. Now, do you do the same, or do you tell him if you are going out, staying for drinks with friends till midnight? Or do you also not inform him if you won't be home till late?[/quote]

Because I didn't keep quiet about it when we were first marriage and it led to all kinds of fights.  He would blame me for not filling up the gas tank, etc. and repeatedly throw in my face how I didn't have a long commute. Oh, and yes, the stock options he got for working all those hours is what got us the down payment for our house and furniture, so I shouldn't complain. [/quote]

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