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[quote=Anonymous]I don't know your situation OP obviously. And I'd never want to do that to my kids. But a lot of things make me resentful: He was not interested in parenting our kids. Now he parents hers. He never pays his child support on time. But he goes on expensive vacations with new wife. He never takes our children. His new wife and he get 5 days out of every 14 to be child free, because her ex takes her kids (that he now lives with). He only spends 48 hours every other weekend with our kids. He has a life; I do not. Because, mom. And on and on. It's kind of like the conversations Reese Witherspoon has with her ex in "Big Little Lies" where she's still pissed at him for cheating, leaving, getting remarried, having a new kid, being a good parent.... NOW. And he says, "What am I never supposed to learn from my mistakes????" You totally screwed me over but now you're being nice to this woman who is *not* the mother of your children, and raising kids that are not yours with her? Well, OK then. So, while that all likely doesn't relate exactly to your situation, it is rather galling to be stuck with the wreckage an badly behaved ex left behind, while he moves on to a happy new life. Oh BTW he cheated, so technically I divorced him. There's a difference between asking fora divorce and being responsible for the divorce. [/quote]
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