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[quote=Anonymous]We're mid 30s DS is 4 y.o.
Schedule the sex. It sounds boring but from realistically from high school until moving out the dorm senior yr all the sex I had was scheduled around times parents/roommates weren't around.

Nighttime sex is hard after work and bedtime routines and one of us usually falls asleep in the DS bed. #adulting 
More on that later.

What worked for us was mornings after daycare drop off but before work with a couple shower afterward or take a half day and meet at home or elsewhere.

Get family or friends to watch the child at their place. As much as love my little guy him not being home makes it easier for her to access her sexual self. Also same day hotel deals (Hotwire, Priceline, etc.) and play strangers at the bar. The first time we did that we actually just slept naked for like 10 HOURS!!! It was glorious.

Regular date nights at least twice month.

Me cleaning the house top to bottom usually earns me a really good time.

We sext sometimes during  the day.

Sage advice: Kick the kids out of your bed! 
It's gonna suck at first but once your little one learns to love their big boy/girl bed, it'll get better.

Becoming a parent is big change and can be really stressful especially on sexual part of your relationship. But if you do find that groove again you'll both be better for it.

Good luck![/quote]

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