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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you went on a so-so afternoon date with a guy, and he called you later that evening and left a message asking you out again, only he called you the wrong name, would you even call him back?

So this happened to me. Date was ok, but left me sort of meh. Guy called me later that evening, but called me another name: “Hey Jen, had a great time at XYZ. Some friends and I are going to blah blah this weekend and I’d love for you to come!” Only I’m not Jen, I’m Beth. The call was sort of a turn off/ thing I needed to know I didn’t want to see him again. And I ghosted him. Never thought I’d see him again, but I did today. We ignored each other. I was telling a friend about this, and she was shocked I didn’t call to correct my name, at the least. I told her if he couldn’t even remember my name, how into me could he have really been.

What do you think?[/quote]

Is your name Beth and the other name Jen?  Or names equally as different? Or is more like  Ava and Eva?  or Cara and  Keira?

I typically save ghosting for truly abhorrent behavior. And while calling you the wrong name was rude  it was not ghosting worthy in my opinion.

It seems you weren't into  seeing hi again so why not just say that " Thanks for the coffee or whatever, but the chemistry isn't there."

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