Reply to I don't think my husband likes me

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "I don't think my husband likes me"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I should clarify that the fight over "nothing" is about the fact that I mentioned that at one point, I paid the bills and therefore, if he wants to hand that task over, feel free.  I copped to being late, I know that was my fault.  For well over a year, the payments were automatic, and it just wasn't on my radar to do on a weekly basis, and I didn't know when the automatic thing was going to kick in so I didn't want to pay monthly, blah blah blah.  I said to him, "damn, I forgot,  I just got an email from daycare."  I know, look, I suck.  I got that. [b] But he went ballistic that I "took credit" for the task of paying bills online for the time we lived in another city.  Three years ago.  [/b]And what came out was a lot of anger and resentment.  So when I say "nothing" I mean the statement that I at one time paid the bills.
I personally don't think that's normal and feel like it's pent up anger and dislike toward me, just waiting for the first opportunity to come out.
I don't think he's an abuser.  I don't think I'm a victim.  [/quote]

Yeah, this isn't normal. Actually going ballistic over a one-time mistake? or even a mistake  that shouldn't have happened more than once (I put dish soap in the dishwasher more than once. Bubble city. Nobody went ballistic).

Something else is going on. Affair, drugs?  Or is your DH just crazy?[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics