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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I am turning 32 in a month. I get the money thing because before my advancement, I was making 80k. I collectively look if they posted a salary, their edcuation level, job, etc. I would hope to stay home PT in the beginning if I have children, and hope to marry a guy who makes enough for that to happen. I know levels of income change, and most men don't start earning higher incomes until their 30's or 40's. I am talking about a couple of guys who have a liberal arts degree and make 30-40k. I don't want to be a snob, but I would hope to find a guy who possess at least a bachelors degree ( I have a masters). [/quote]

I think this is perfectly reasonable. When I was 32 I was dismissive of any guy who had a job inferior or worse paid than my own. My DH who I met at 35 was earning a fraction more than me when we met - and in a great career which has advanced greatly over the past 15 years. So I totally get it.

I think you need to look elsewhere for your boyfriends OP. Is there a private / exclusive kind of dating site / club etc that you can join?

Or can you expand your personal hobbies into actual places where you are more likely to meet these kinds of men? I didn't meet my DH online I met him on a yoga retreat. It was full of music execs, and other entertainment industry folks.[/quote]

Op here. I am fine with a student. I work in a hospital, but my last relationship didn't go well. I do not want to date a co-worker again. I'm boring lol. My hobbies are the gym, hiking, rock climbing, camping, trying new restaurants, bars, and hanging with friends. [/quote]

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