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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Guy here.  For me, and if i were younger and if I just wanted to sleep with you (i.e., short term fling of sorts), then perhaps.

But I'm just too far removed from the post-college scene to be playing games. I'm a single dad, early 40s with a great high income career.  I am only interested in women who want a serious relationship. This means a mature woman who knows what she wants and doesn't play childish games.[/quote]

I get that but the thing is that a serious relationship unfolds and grows naturally, that means over time. You can't press a button or announce that ok, starting today we are in a serious relationship.  It has to build up. You cannot fast-track closeness or intimacy -if you feel close and intimate quickly, that means you're projecting your own ideas onto a person vs. seeing a real person.  Wanting a serious relationship doesn't mean going on all cylinders immediately.  if a relationship is meant to be serious, it will grow to that point naturally over time. [/quote]

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