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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It depends. When I was a pretty, fun, outgoing 20 something, men didn't care that I didnt make much money. They weren't thinking with their big head.

Now that I'm in my 30s and married, my lack of work history is a huge problem in my marriage. I'm [/quote]

Accidentally hit submit. It's a huge problem in my marriage and my DH has little respect for me because my career before marriage/kids didn't make much my D.C. Standards, and then I became a SAHM which he said he was okay with initially, but now it causes a lot of arguments. So I'm working on getting a career started back up.

I could get away with it when I was hot and young, but now I'm under no illusion that men would put up with it. The only men I know who would have major issues going on (abusive, addiction, etc) so they like having someone with few options. I think for initial attraction job/money play little role- men just want someone who looks nice. But for a relationship, they want a functioning adult.

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