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[quote=Anonymous]My mother gave me silent treatments growing up. The only power you have is to stop caring. You have to detach emotionally and then any “leverage” she gains from doing what she’s doing will vanish. Just let go of your side of the rope, so to speak. It’s completely liberating. My mother still gives me the silent treatment and when she does I consider it a welcome break from speaking to her and I genuinely don’t think about her at all while she’s ignoring me. Don’t care. And then one day she usually calls and acts like nothing has happened. Okay. I just chat with her like she’s some random old lady I should be decent to because we’re all human and I want to show her basic kindness. That’s the level of relationship we have. And it’s realky ok. I’m at peace with it.[/quote]
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