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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]right after college. I even got an abortion at 25 because I didn't want to interrupt my young career.

All for what? I make six figures, I'm unhappy and those [i]fun[/i] drunken weekends were fleeting.

Sorry, just venting. On the off chance any young women read this forum: Don't make the same mistake.[/quote]Sorry, OP, I think the issue is not that you should have gotten married younger.  It's why are you avoiding serious relationships that can lead to marriage.  If you just married for the sake of marrying in your 20s, you'd probably be unhappy and married or divorced today.  Do some therapy and try to understand why [i]you[/i] avoided marriage.

Say this as someone who would have ended up single if I hadn't done group therapy for adult children of adult alcoholics in my late 20s and come to terms with my fear of commitment.  I would have been pretty happy single, too, it's just that where I was at the time, it wasn't a choice I was making.  I was afraid of getting involved.  Stop blaming this on your career.  Start looking at what you were avoiding.[/quote]

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